Listen to your inner thoughts and feelings. If it doesn’t feel right to you then the chances are pretty good it’s not going to be right. There are times that you will convince yourself otherwise because you really need it to be otherwise. Have you ever taken a job because it paid well, but you didn’t really like it, but thought you would grow to like it? But you never did and said “I should never have taken it, I could have found something else”? Have you ever been convinced by someone to do something, go somewhere or meet someone because you aimed to please, but felt…really felt that it was not for you (and you know the difference between just not ready and really not right for you), and it turned out to be a total, total mistake? And you said to yourself, why did I let myself be talked into that, I felt in my heart it wasn’t going to be good? I know that there may be those that say, well if you say it won’t be good, then of course it won’t be good…but this is different, as you know I’m a cheerleader for positivity, there are just those things that you know are not for you. Why do something that isn’t right for you? Maybe even bad for you? You could be using the time to do what is right for you. In a more specific personal case, I’ve had doctors that I knew were not right for me, but long ago when I was too young to know that I could choose or find another doctor, or that I could trust my inner feelings I would tell myself that a doctor of course knew more than I did and I would stay with a doctor I had these not right feelings about…remember, not right for me. The same doctor could be great for somebody else. I now know that it’s okay to feel that lack of connection with a doctor and to go and find a different one…you need to have that connection. Those inner feelings are to an enormous degree of why I was able to find the doctors I found and why I am still as capable as I am today having been through all my body has been through. It is that listening to yourself that is a big part of Life Coaching. It’s all about you and what you’re thinking and feeling. I’m just your guide.
If it doesn’t feel right…it’s not right
